[And silence. Deeply confused silence. Kesara knows that not all relations between the sexes are about marriage, but she's also fairly sure that she understood correctly, that Zach and Steph's relation is not of the other sort. And she has no idea, no idea what other options are available.]

That is not - I mean - that is young, but girls can marry at twelve, so - I mean - if you don't mean to marry then why are you courting?